Do you think it’s possible to be spoiled without even knowing? Are you still a good person if you are selectively nice to one person and not to another? Can opposites really attract? What human characteristic determines whether a person is confident versus arrogant? Since when did having a soft heart become a negative trait?
The older you get, the harder it is to understand.
You don’t let someone get their way and you automatically feel bad. You do something nice even when you don’t want to and you get called out for not having a backbone. You stand up for yourself and don’t do something you don’t want to do and you still get called out for being a bitch, a sell out, no fun, etc… You’re too nice, it’s bad. You’re not nice, it’s bad. How do you know what type of person you are when people can poke holes into everything? /thoughts